This article will look at a variety of types of kisses, and will also pay attention to how to kiss correctly.
Meaning: “I want to get to know you better.”
A kiss on the cheek may seem more like a manifestation of platonic feelings, or respectful attitude to your relatives, but it can also be applied to your other half.
Your lips should be soft and relaxed. Bring them to the cheek of your girlfriend or boyfriend (if you are a girl), as if choosing perfect place for a kiss. Then gently touch your cheek with your lips.
A kiss on the cheek can turn into a kiss on the earlobe, which is a very sensitive point for the touch of the lips, tongue and breath. You can bite your earlobe, just do it with your lips over your teeth.
“I feel good around you.”
Move your lips to the closed eyes of a loved one and, lightly touching, kiss them. You can also kiss the eyebrows and corners of the eyes.
This is an especially nice way to kiss someone you really love. No wonder the kiss of the eyelids is also called the kiss of an angel.
"I care about you."
This is a sincere kiss that promotes a sense of security, which is created specifically to express concern for each other.
"You are cute."
Kisses on the back or inside of the hand are very sensual.
And even though this is not the most passionate kind of kisses, they always reflect your care and desire to be around.
“Every part of you is amazing.”
This kiss resembles the bite of a vampire, but that does not make it any less pleasant and amazing.
"I like your face."
Consists of kissing the chin from ear to ear. You already know what can be done with the earlobe.
“You are gentle and affectionate.”
Kissing on the nose will seem quirky and cute, making both of you smile.
"Let's continue."
The back of the neck can be an interesting target for a kiss. Your other half will definitely appreciate it.
“Each part of you is better than the last.”
Try this type of kissing by touching your lips to the pads on your fingertips.
10. French kiss (sucking)
“You awakened my feelings.”
The touch of the lips is great, but kissing using both lips and tongue is something even more intimate.
The French kiss is one of the most popular types of kisses that breaks out between two very close people.
It is best to start slowly. Touch your loved one's tongue with your tongue. Keep your tongue relaxed and try not to salivate too much.
“I like to play with you.”
This is a gentle kiss, which is designed specifically to seduce the other person.
Kiss either the lower or upper lip of your partner, without using your tongue. This type of kiss can be mixed with a French kiss.
12. Break the ice
"Let's light it up."
This is a very mischievous and fun kiss, which can be used in the process of drinking drinks with ice.
Place an ice cube in your mouth and place it on the tip of your tongue, then kiss the girl (guy) and pass the ice cube with your tongue.
Find out how long it takes for the ice to melt.
13. Hot and cold
“I'm slowing down, but I'm going to speed up.”
While kissing your partner, pull away sharply, and then gently hit his lips with your lips, provoking an explosion of feelings.
"I miss you."
Kiss your lower lip, remembering to use your tongue.
"I want you."
Get close to kiss your partner, but instead run your tongue over their lips.
Now kiss them.
"Let's experiment."
You gently kiss your partner's tongue.
“Next to you, I become better.”
When you are as close as possible face to face, open and close your eyes, touching the cheeks, nose or lips of the girl (guy) with eyelashes.
Let your lashes have some fun too.
"You make me smile."
Touch your partner's nose with your nose, moving up and down, as well as from side to side.
"You are mine."
Gently kiss the girl's neck for pleasant emotions.
“Let's try something new.”
Try the legendary kiss from the movie "Spider-Man" when your face is upside down in relation to your partner.
You can use this type of kissing while in bed or on the edge of the bed.
“Let's add some fun.”
This kiss is like melting ice, only sweeter.
Put a berry or piece of fruit in your mouth, then move on to French kissing. As soon as your lips meet, pass the fruit with your lips and tongue to your partner.
“Thanks to you, I feel good.”
This kind of kissing is done by sucking your partner's lips as if you are trying to suck the soul out of him. In terms of duration, it is not long.
“No one will know about our secret.”
Take a little sip of your favorite drink and leave drops on your lips. After that, kiss your partner, sharing your favorite taste.
“How passionate you are.”
To make this kiss come true, touch each other with the tips of your tongues.
“You are delicious.”
Almost any kiss can be made more fun by adding a bit of nibbling to it, by gently grasping, for example, your partner's lip or earlobe.
Remember to perform such a kiss very gently, making sure that it does not hurt.
“I have fun with you.”
Choose a part of your partner's body, let's say the back. Start kissing in the form of letters of the name of the girl (guy), or depicting another figure, for example, the sail of a yacht.
"Your body is excellent."
The collarbone is a very sensitive part of the body.
You have the option of kissing your partner gently, harshly, or using your tongue.
You can move the kiss from your collarbone down your belly, or move up to your shoulders and face.
“It’s calm and pleasant with you.”
The belly is a nice, soft place to kiss.
"Your hands are attractive."
Why stop at the palm and wrist? Continue kissing all the way to the elbow.
“I would eat you whole.”
Shoulders can be an interesting choice for a kiss.
You can kiss the shoulder directly, or you can reach it by making a line from the earlobe or elbow.
Work your way across your partner's chest and then towards the lips.
"I like you."
This kind of kissing is perfect for a couple that or when someone goes outside the house.
It can also be suitable for first kisses in new couples when one party doesn't know how the other feels.
32. Mua or air kiss
"I want to be next to you."
This kiss should be used during a telephone conversation or while at some distance.
Just say "mua!"
"I think of you."
When your partner is not around, you might want to send a virtual kiss via text message.
Write something like “I would love to kiss you right now…” or “This text message will turn into a kiss when I see you.”
“I like spending time with you.”
The shoulder is a rather unusual target for a kiss.
If you decide to kiss the back of your neck, think about the back of your shoulder, also sometimes called an angel's wing.
"I'm holding you."
This kiss happens when the guy is tight, which lifts his feet off the ground and floats in the air.
36. Adventure kiss
“Tonight will be fun.”
Try kissing a girl from a moving car. At the same time, try to follow the rules of the road.
"You are charming."
This type of kissing has already been considered in tandem with others, but now its solo release has come.
Take your partner's earlobe with your lips and gently pull it down. To increase the degree of attraction, engage the tongue, using a gentle movement in combination with the lips.
It's a very passionate kiss. Your partner will not only feel it, but also hear and feel your warm breath.
“You move great.”
This kiss is for dancing couples. Against the backdrop of a slow sounding composition, it is very romantic.
"And let the whole world wait."
Have you ever surprised your girlfriend with a kiss in the rain? Hug her around the waist unexpectedly and give her a romantic kiss.
Every time it rains, your girlfriend will remember you.
“You are very attractive.”
In fact, this is the same kiss on the lips without a tongue, on the cheek or on the nose, only the context is different.
You can use it anywhere, but it gets its special specificity when you are in public.
With this kiss, the play of the eyes is of great importance. The couple looks at each other with a passionate look, slowly approaches and, finally, one of them quickly kisses on the lips, cheek or nose.
“Nowhere to retreat.”
Want to add more passion? Then try this kind of kissing.
Just gently push the girl to the next wall, and while holding her, start kissing her on the lips.
42. Secret kiss
Close your girlfriend's (boyfriend's) eyes, tell her that she's in for a little surprise, put some candy on your tongue and give her a French kiss.
“It seems that happiness will never end.”
Kiss twice as slow as usual or at one quarter of your normal speed.
It's amazing how slow motion speeds things up so fast.
How to kiss
1. Take the first step
Don't be afraid to take the first step. Each of us is personally responsible for our own pleasure, and there is no reason to wait until the other person decides to kiss you.
Don't ask if you can kiss a girl. Alternatively, start with a kiss on the forehead, then kiss the tip of your nose, then move on to French kissing.
The best time for the first kiss is when you are alone, there is a pause in the conversation, and you both look into each other's eyes.
Push the situation to this point by escaping from the crowd to a place where you feel comfortable.
Stand or sit next to your partner, make eye contact, and let the conversation come to a natural point of passion. You will know when that moment comes.
2. Take your time
Probably, best advice before the first kiss is calmness and lack of fussy movements.
If you're feeling anxious about your kissing abilities, that anxiety can create insecurities and frantic attempts to get things right, which will only make things worse.
As a result, you will begin to behave unnaturally, making unnecessary movements, or your actions will seem somehow abrupt and inappropriate to the situation.
Kissing is supposed to be romantic and relaxing, so try to be gentle and slow.
3. Optimal intensity
Another problem that can be faced before learning how to kiss properly is the intensity of kissing, since it should not go to extremes.
Some people kiss too aggressively, which can lead to their partner's teeth colliding, pushing them away, or backing away and taking a step back.
Others, on the contrary, are too shy and timid, as a result of which their kisses become insipid and lifeless.
Remember handshakes. It will probably be strange if someone squeezes your hand so hard that the bones crackle.
Therefore, pressure and intensity in kisses and hugs should be present, but within reason.
4. Use the language correctly
Another characteristic of a “bad” kiss is too much use of the tongue.
When you first start kissing your partner, you don't have to use your tongue right away. Increase love tension gradually.
Focus on different ways of kissing with lips only. When it comes time to use the tongue, do it carefully.
At first, tilting your head slightly to the side, try to lightly touch the girl's (guy's) tongue. Imagine your tongues gently caressing each other.
Don't press too hard with your tongue and don't try to fill your partner's entire mouth with it.
If you are not sure how to use the language, try to practice on reverse side your palm. play with different ways moving your tongue over the skin of your hand.
This practice may seem silly, but it's really an easy way to understand how things are.
5. Remember to breathe
You will not be able to kiss properly if you do not breathe through your nose during the kiss.
In addition, such a maneuver will slow down the romantic process a little, increasing the level of passion.
6. Variety
Don't let your lips or tongue stay in one place for more than a couple of seconds.
The thrill of the first kiss is thrilling, but anything can happen if you don't change your own style just a little.
Use your tongue to carefully explore all the sensual places in your partner's mouth, alternate kissing styles, but try not to be too bossy or open your mouth too wide.
7. Use your hands and your whole body
The best kiss is one that turns on your whole body, not just your lips.
Hug the girl (guy) or stroke her arms, shoulders and back with your hands. Move your arms up and down your body. Hold your partner tightly. Place your hands on the girl's face or run your hands through her hair.
In addition, you can take a break from kissing on the lips by focusing on the neck or earlobe. Use your whole body to create variety.
When doing this, be sure to remember that a slow pace makes the kiss even more sensual.
8. Playing while kissing
You can diversify kisses with playful actions:
- Pull away from the kiss and look your partner in the eye while smiling playfully.
- Gently run your finger over the girl's lips.
- Pull away from the kiss and, keeping slightly parted lips close together, inhale and exhale together.
9. Adapt your technique
To kiss properly you can use various methods, but do not forget that each person is the owner own style kisses.
So when you kiss someone, pay attention to your partner's actions, as well as what he responds to best.
How actively does the partner use the language? Do you feel that he is uncomfortable when you bite his lips?
As passion builds and momentum increases, you can start kissing with more momentum while continuing to gauge your partner's reaction.
As a result of the feedback received, try to adapt.
10. Open your eyes sometimes
Most people associate kissing with closed eyes. But occasional eye contact before and during the kiss can make it even more passionate.
11. Stay in the moment
Try to enjoy the moment and just feel what is happening.
If you try to keep your attention only on technique all the time, the most piquant thing in a kiss, and this is nothing more than passion, will be crumpled and will take on faded shades.
12. Finish the kiss smoothly.
When you're about to complete a French kiss, it's easiest to just pull away from your partner and stop kissing. But this may seem a bit harsh.
Maybe, the best scenario will stop using the tongue and seek help from the tongueless kiss before the kiss is complete.
It is better if the very first kiss is not too long.
13. Discuss how you like kissing best.
When it comes to any criticism, most people take a defensive stance caused by a sense of vulnerability.
So do not criticize, stating that the partner does not know how to kiss properly.
It is much better if you explain to your loved one what you like and what you don't.
14. Don't neglect kissing
The effort a couple puts into a long-term relationship communicates to the partners their sincere care, love, and respect. And this is really important.
But, unfortunately, the longer the couple is together, the less importance the lovers give to the French kiss. They begin to think that it is not so important.
However, even in a long-term relationship, French kissing should remain a priority.
Conclusion
First of all, try to focus on the types of kisses and recommendations reviewed that you like and suit best. remember, that the right kiss is when it is fun and pleasant.
Pay attention to how you feel, as well as the signals coming from your partner, and most likely the kiss will turn out even better than you expected.
Even more than hot movie kiss scenes, we care about real stories.
Stories from real people, not fictional characters. Four girls told us what it was like, their first kiss.
Katya, 17 years old
I was 15 years old when my parents sent me to camp for the first time. We chose a fairly well-known Bulgarian camp, which promises a storm of new emotions and impressions. Already at the airport, saying goodbye to my parents and seeing a lot of handsome guys, I realized what was waiting for me, but the problem of the first kiss immediately popped up in my head. I didn't even know what it was! Of course, there were trainings on tomatoes, games in the bottle, but all my peers have long understood what's what, and I practiced everything on vegetables. The first 2 weeks in the camp flew by unnoticed, everything went like clockwork: a sea of impressions, new acquaintances, cheerful counselors ... Then I talked with several peers, but I knew that nothing serious would come of it. Our counselors were the guy Misha and the girl Olya - 20-year-old students. Everyone loved them dearly. Everyone especially liked Misha - a tall brunette with pronounced cheekbones and bottomless blue eyes, in short, the face from the cover. The girls hung on him, as soon as he entered the room. But I didn’t feel any feelings for him, except for friendly ones. Once at the evening "candle" he played the guitar. It was very sincere, and sometimes I felt his gaze on me, but I did not attach any importance to this. In the end, he is a counselor, what thoughts can there be. But then something happened that could not have been expected. In the evenings, an incomprehensible madness usually finds on me and my roommates, so that evening, after the “candle”, we went into our bedroom, and a wild pillow fight began.
During the game, no one noticed how Misha joined. He laughed and fooled around with us. But then the pillow flew onto the balcony and Misha and I ran after it. And now we are already standing together on the cold floor, and the door is safely locked behind us and giggling merrily.
Laughing, I started screaming and asking to be let out, but my friends left the room together, leaving Misha and me standing locked on the balcony.
It was a little scary, there was total darkness around, and, as luck would have it, not a single lantern was lit. I banged on the door, shouted, called my friends and marveled at the perfect calmness of my friend "by misfortune." She raised her hand to shy away again, but then Misha grabbed my shoulders, turned me to him and said: “Calm down, everyone has been sleeping for a long time, no one will come until morning.” Then he hugged her tightly and wrapped both arms around her back. Despite the fact that I was terribly embarrassed, and the stream of thoughts tormented my head, it was both pleasant and did not want him to let me go at all. At one point, I was so close to his face that I already felt warm breath on my cheeks, he gently kissed my forehead, and I involuntarily reached out to him, our lips touched ... For 10 seconds, his lips moved to the beat of mine, it was softly, strangely, pleasantly… He leaned back, brushed a strand of hair off my cheek, and then parted his lips again and leaned closer…
It was so sweet, but it didn't connect with all the things that had been carefully thought out over the years ...
We talked all night after that and it turned out that from the beginning of the shift he really liked me, but he was afraid that I would be embarrassed by the age difference. In the morning, the neighbors opened us and with a special smirk looked first at me, then at Misha. But at that moment I was grateful to them, more than ever. The rest of the week flew by at breakneck speed, the last night with friends, tears at the airport and the return home. We didn’t communicate with Misha anymore, but I am grateful to him for helping to fulfill my teenage dream and leaving behind pleasant memories that I am not ashamed to talk about.
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Lena, 18 years old
You always remember such moments well: every second, every breath, every exhalation. But you will never remember exactly the feelings that you experienced, because, from the side of the past, you look at it, as a funny joke, as something childishly funny. So the memories of my first kiss are exactly the same ... I remember it was in the summer, at my grandmother's dacha. It was July outside, hot, bored. There was nothing left to do but lie down, watch TV shows and wait for something like that to happen.
The only one who brought joy to my gray holidays was the neighbor Kostya.
We had known each other for two years, we knew everything about each other, we shared our innermost secrets, and, as usual, spent every summer together. Sometimes he stayed overnight with me, but there was nothing personal behind this. He knew that I treated him like a friend, but I understood that he liked me. And I was not the only one who noticed this, my grandmother married us a long time ago and came up with names for future children. But I was unwavering - nothing but friendship, period. One day, it was broadcast on TV that on the night of July 24-25, the largest starfall is planned and it’s impossible to miss it! Naturally, all our conversations were occupied by this upcoming event, we thought in advance how and where we would contemplate the starfall. On the evening of the 24th, Kostya came to me, and we began the final preparations. We collected a huge bag, grabbed everything we needed and went to the lake, which was two kilometers from the house. All the way Kostya was telling me about some comics that were boring as hell, but I didn’t interrupt him, I just pretended to listen carefully. At the same time, I had some kind of strange jitters, I looked at Kostya and realized how close people we were to each other, how much we had experienced together, I have been living in this world for 16 years, and I associate half of what I have lived with him …
We have reached the lake. It was getting dark. Kostya took two folding beds, but after putting one down, he realized that the leg of the second one was broken. It remained to huddle on one narrow sunbed. I never felt awkward at such moments, but then a strange timidity seized me, and he felt uneasy. Somehow they settled down, began to wait for the fall of the first star. In painful anticipation and complete silence, 20 minutes passed.
The wind blew and goosebumps ran down my arms, then Kostya carefully covered me with a blanket, and somehow it became very comfortable.
I told him to hide too. We lay close to each other, I put my arm around his shoulder ... And suddenly a pale yellow light quickly appeared in the sky and immediately went out. Star! I began to carefully peer into the sky and saw another one, and then another and another ... The stars fell one after another, we rejoiced like five-year-old children.
At one point, I looked at Kostya and I don’t know why, I kissed him. At first, lips dry from the wind timidly, and then too passionately and fluently, began to kiss mine, all this was diluted with an unpleasant smack, and sometimes he involuntarily bit the inside of his lip, apparently, this was also new for him. It was a little unpleasant for me that I constantly felt his tongue, but what to do - at that moment it seemed to me that all kisses were like that ... After that, he buried his face in my shoulder, and I thought about what had happened. Not to say that these were the best moments in my life, but for the first time it seemed normal ... Now I'm 18, I'm studying at the university as an interpreter and on weekends I go out to look at the stars with Konstantin - my childhood friend and beloved young man part-time. Now he kisses better. No one expected that fate would turn out like this, we just happened to be together under the right star in time.
Julia, 21 years old
I am 15. I am a first-year student at a technical school. He, the same boy, is on the 3rd. Kirill. As soon as I saw him, I immediately liked him madly: he had long bangs, a cool snowboard jacket, a beautiful green sweatshirt, small tunnels in the ears. In general, he looked very, very nice. The way I love. I personally met him at one of our parties. It was something like “Hi, I'm Julia! Hello, I'm Cyril. We didn’t talk much, but after that party I liked Kirill even more. A couple of days later he added me to ICQ. Yes, yes, VKontakte did not exist then. We began to correspond ... And even then I had his photo on my phone. Not on a call, on the wallpaper. That's how I liked him! After some time, we once again gathered with friends from the technical school. It was in November, and it was, of course, very cool. Therefore, the guys decided to hang out on the stairwell at the entrance.
We were, as I remember, five people. Me, my friends Masha, Nastya, Ksyusha and Kirill. Somewhere in the middle of the party, we were already sitting with Cyril in an embrace. Soon the girls realized that they should leave us alone and go home. So they did. I was left alone with Cyril. I understood that we would definitely kiss and began to worry terribly.
The question swirled in my head: Should I or shouldn't I tell him I've never kissed before?
As a result, I still decided to admit that this is the first time for me. In fact, I was very happy because he reacted very nicely and just kissed me. He did everything very carefully, slowly, smoothly ... I am very glad that he was not rude and did not do everything very quickly.
I immediately understood how and what to do and, it can be considered, I learned to kiss. Yes, but it was only when we were done that he looked at me and asked weird question: "Sorry, what are you, a virgin?!". I was a little embarrassed and said yes. Although I still do not understand why he asked this and what he expected to hear in response. After all, I was definitely not going to have sex, even in the stairwell!
We sat for another 20-30 minutes, he walked me home and that was it - we didn’t kiss him anymore.
That is, we greeted each other, did not avoid each other, but did not begin to meet. It turned out that he liked another girl from our group. In fact, a week later he “stirred up” with her. I was, of course, very upset. And I didn't like this girl either. But, in any case, I am very grateful to Cyril for such a wonderful first kiss.
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Olya, 23 years old
To be honest, I don't like to think about my first kiss. I mean, when asked to talk about a first kiss, they want to hear something sweet and romantic. Or, on the contrary, a terrible story about some maniac. And everything with me was so stupid, ridiculous and realistic ... The person who ruined my first kiss was called Andrey. He was a friend of a guy who dated my best school friend Katya. Oh, Katya... She was a real sex bomb. Of course, not a school “davalka”, but a girl with whom many of our classmates would not mind “stirring up”. One succeeded, and before that, Katya hung out with guys not from school.
It all happened when we were in 9th grade. At that time, Katya was a very close person to me, the most best friend. But sometimes I wanted to strangle her. After all, she got the coolest boys! And in general, in all these matters she was much more experienced than me. And it was frustrating. So, I once walked with her, her new superboy and his friend Andrey. Of course, it was implied that we were brought together with him. Not that I really liked him, but I found him cute. I don’t even remember if he proposed to me to meet and in general how we started spending time together, but yes, we began to go out often. Less often - two, more often - four. The guys rode us on bikes, bought us all sorts of goodies. All in all, everything seemed to be perfect.
Once Andrei said that his parents were not at home.
He lived in a five-story building. First, we hung out in the stairwell, where the guys showed off their skills to blow smoke rings, and then went to the apartment. Katya locked herself with her boyfriend in a small room. And Dron and I stayed in the living room. Everything around was so, I don’t know, “Soviet”: old furniture, a creaky mattress, wallpaper that was peeled in places. I dodged the kiss as best I could, but I gave in. I didn't tell Andrei that I couldn't kiss. And he didn't ask either. Thought I'd figure it out along the way. And Andrew just started kissing me. Not very pleasant, with language, rude and not at all the way I imagined it. I had to do it over and over. Instead of enjoying, I looked at the peeling wallpaper on the ceiling and dreamed that everything would be over as soon as possible. And, thank God, he stopped. I thought: “Pretending everything is OK is the best option.”
A day later, I found out that Andrei told Katya's boyfriend nasty things about me: that I suck at kissing, and that he doesn't want to meet with me anymore.
Of course, I was very upset. I cried as I remember. Katya continued to meet with that boy. All this time, I tried to leave school early, ran to the locker room, headlong ... after all, Max and Andrey always met Katya after school. And I didn’t want to see the person who said that I suck at kissing. A few months later, Katya's boyfriend and his friend somehow disappeared ... and Katya and I got a job - handing out leaflets. A guy named Sasha worked with us. Very handsome, tall blonde hair, blue eyes and wonderful freckles on the face. And, hurray, he liked me, not Katya. And we started dating. Kissing him was truly beautiful. After all, he immediately realized that I did not know how. He said that it was not scary and taught me. He spoke when it was slower, when it was faster, and so on. As a result, we just couldn't kiss! So, down with those first kisses. Give the second, third and fourth!
Young people often approach the first kiss with great excitement and anxiety, as they have no experience and do not know how to kiss for the first time. This exciting moment has a chance to become either a successful start to a relationship that is just emerging, or a complete failure.
No one wants to seem like an amateur in such a serious matter as kissing for the first time. Due to the lack of practice of both partners, curious, funny, and even completely unpleasant moments can be expected that you would so like to avoid. Relationships are always exciting, touching and romantic, and so that this moment leaves only the best memories for many, we will figure out how to get away from the mistakes that prevent making a kiss for the first time an indicator of the most serious intentions.
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Events that were emotionally significant, a person remembers throughout his life.
This has long been proven by psychologists. The more important the action, the more vivid the memory remains. This definition is called emotionally colored brightness. The brighter the feeling emotionally, the longer it will remain in the memory of a person, especially if such events occur for the first time. And the first kiss of teenagers is one of the most emotional sensations that can leave a deep mark on the memory for many years. Moreover, the memory of the first kiss and the pleasant sensations that were experienced can be remembered forever.
Kissing the first time and the second, and the third is good for health. It improves mood, burns calories, strengthens the immune system, increases physical and mental activity. Psychologists believe that kissing means finding peace of mind and harmony between the outer and inner worlds.
How to kiss for the first time so that it will be remembered forever? It is important to know:
- you need to kiss for the first time with someone who is desirable for you, someone who causes your heart to sink even at a glance; it is important that sympathy is mutual;
- you should not kiss for the first time in the absence of desire, if the situation does not at all correspond to the expected event;
- you should forget about alcohol for courage - it can dull feelings, and the emancipation created in this way will not help make the kiss memorable.
The main mistake made by those who decide to kiss for the first time in their lives is to do it just for their own pleasure. It is advisable to try to feel his (or her) desires and support them. This will help to get a unique impression from the first kiss.
How old can you be?
Are you worried about the question, at what age can you kiss for the first time? In this case, most likely, you are in love and the desire to get closer to the object of sighing. The specific age is not important, because:
- someone experienced kissing for the first time in kindergarten;
- others were lucky at the age of 20;
- teenagers begin to kiss at the age of 12-16, there is nothing reprehensible and strange in this.
There are no critical age limits. It cannot be blamed or ridiculed. Girls, unlike boys, develop faster, so they often want to kiss for the first time with a high school student more than with a peer.
Be responsible in choosing a partner. There will be no second attempt, you need to act sincerely and gently. Girls should not kiss solely because all their girlfriends already have this practice, and guys - to look cooler in the eyes of others.
It is important for a girl that her feelings are not overshadowed by a feeling of insincerity and distrust. Therefore, before taking a step towards the first kiss, you need to be sure that this is exactly the guy you need. Only then will the first kiss be remembered forever.
How to behave with a guy?
You - Young lady, which means that you are worried about the first contact with a member of the opposite sex. How to kiss for the first time so that the sensations are not spoiled by wrong actions? What to do if he seems to show signs of attention, but still does not dare to make such tactile contact? Well, you have to take the initiative and take the first step yourself.
To learn the secret of how to kiss a guy for the first time, you will need:
- an object of the opposite sex;
- your lips and his;
- appropriate environment;
- possible absence of witnesses.
The recipe is simple - maximum naturalness, minimum stress. All of us were inexperienced and literally understood nothing about the art of love. However, having overcome shyness and fear, some manage to find a person for life. And what if the lucky one who likes so much is fate?
So the long-awaited first date has come. How to kiss without a tongue for the first time?
- Do not rush things.
- You communicate nicely, talk on various topics, laugh, and the meeting time is slowly coming to an end.
- There are two options: he looks into the eyes without looking away, or he behaves at ease, and in his future plans to take him home, as a result, to carry out his plan.
Be that as it may, act relaxed, open and smile more. A smile always disposes the interlocutor.
Flirt:
- look at him and playfully lower your eyes down;
- playing with hair - lightly winding a strand on a finger, correcting a hairstyle is always perceived as flirting;
- do not overplay, so as not to frighten.
There must be a measure in everything, the so-called "golden mean".
The fewer nerves, the more likely that the meeting will be successful, and you yourself will understand how to kiss a guy for the first time, as it almost always looks natural and at ease if sincere feelings have appeared between you. Nothing terrible will happen if something does not go according to plan, there is nothing to be ashamed of. And for you it will be a lesson and experience for the future.
How to make your first kiss unforgettable
How to kiss for the first time?
The moment is approaching when the first kiss will take place. How to kiss a young man you like?
Only lips are involved in this process, the initiative is in the hands of the lady. How to kiss without a tongue for the first time? You can gently kiss him, saying goodbye at the end of the date:
- Standing facing young man, smile at him and thank him for a pleasant evening.
- Step towards him or rise on your tiptoes to be close to his face.
- Close your lips, lower your eyelids, touch your lips to his lips and press, only lingering in this position for a second.
- After that, your best decision is to leave. After such an act, he will think about you, eagerly plan the next meeting.
A little trick: before kissing with the tongue with a guy for the first time, make up your lips with lipstick at home. If the “same” moment comes up, erase it discreetly. This will be a clear sign for him to take the decisive action that you are waiting for.
How to kiss with the tongue with a guy for the first time? This technique called the most common. France is considered the birthplace of love, lovers often come here and confess their feelings.
- a man should start kissing, a girl should follow him;
- although sometimes ladies can take over this initiative if the guy cannot make up his mind;
- trust your beloved, come closer, do not hide your hands;
- movements are smooth, calm;
- surrender to the moment, everything will happen by itself.
A few tips on how to properly kiss for the first time with the tongue:
- Lick your lips, lightly moisturize them.
- Approach the face of the man, bow your head to avoid a collision with your nose, close your eyelids.
- Kissing for the first time in this way should be started by first closing and gradually opening the lips, doing it as slowly as possible.
- If he doesn't mind a "French Kiss", open and relax your lips a little, make him lightly press one of your lips with his lips.
- Open and close your mouth again, sticking out your tongue, making movements similar to licking a lollipop.
- The movements of the tongue should be smooth, soft.
And how does a guy kiss for the first time with a girl with a tongue, and breathe? Your breathing should be through your nose. If your tongue is in your partner's mouth, you can fantasize: hold it across the sky, touch his teeth, tongue. A responsive man will make the first French kiss the most sensual and give an unforgettable experience to both.
Every young man who wants to impress the girl he likes should feel confident and be able to kiss - beautifully, correctly and very romantically.
To match the image of a confident man and leave a lasting impression on the first kiss, you need to know how to behave on a first date and how to kiss a girl for the first time on the lips.
What to do and what not to do on a date?
The first kiss with a girl is a wonderful event. Most young men are too worried about this. Only the right attitude able to control the situation.
Remember: this is not an exam that you need to pass on the top five. Only trial and error results are achieved.
You will understand when it is possible to kiss a girl for the first time from all of the following:
- Do not rush things and do not act against her will, otherwise a good slap in the face and termination of communication are guaranteed. Her high spirits, sparkle in her eyes - the "green light" of approval.
- The beautiful half of the sex loves when a man smells "delicious". Perfume should not be harsh and cloying. Refreshing, light fragrance is the perfect solution, especially in summer.
- Show gentlemanly qualities: offer a hand, open the door, move a chair in a cafe for the first time and in subsequent meetings. In a word, do everything to make her feel protected.
- Give flowers, not necessarily a large and expensive bouquet. It will be a manifestation of tenderness and feelings.
How to kiss a girl for the first time so that it will be remembered forever? To understand how to kiss a girl for the first time on the lips, you need to create tactile contact. But if the lady cleans up, crosses her arms, moves away, or explicitly asks you not to touch her, you need to urgently stop and apologize. You didn't like it, it happens. You can't please everyone, that's ok. Jokes, sharp remarks regarding her appearance, hobbies, friends, family are in any case unacceptable, this is not the best option for conversations.
The list of common incidents on a date for the first time should include:
- the question of the possibility of a kiss;
- excessive touch;
- abstract conversations after what is happening;
- ridiculous phrases and comments.
How to kiss a girl on the lips?
Many magazines cover the topic "How to kiss a girl on the lips for the first time." It will always be relevant, nothing changes from year to year.
To properly kiss a girl for the first time, you must:
- avoid large crowds of people, as there is a high risk of meeting acquaintances; what if she doesn’t want anyone to know about it yet - such an atmosphere pinches, doesn’t allow her to fully open up, enjoy each other;
- a look and an unobtrusive smile decide a lot, if not all; touch her hair, gently swiping behind the ear; if she does not turn away, you are on the right track;
- gently reach for her lips, lightly touch them with your mouth;
- start kissing for the first time gently, watch her reaction.
If the young lady reciprocates, do not stop. Hug your shoulders, stroke your chin and cheeks a little.
How to kiss with tongue?
How to kiss with the tongue with a girl for the first time? Start with the traditional option:
- Without opening your lips, kiss a couple of times in a row.
- Run the tip of your tongue over your lips, as if licking.
- After that, your partner should reciprocate, that is, part her lips.
- If this does not happen, put your tongue in your mouth a little.
Did not help? Do not continue, then she did not have a desire to kiss "in French" for the first time.
If the first time everything goes as planned, continue to "explore" the beloved's mouth, going over the teeth with your tongue. It is possible to approach such a moment if people trust each other, there are no physical barriers between them in order to kiss for the first time. Kissing for her is a magical feeling of "butterflies in the stomach", a bright, incomparable feeling.
Most lovers believe that sticking their tongue in full length for the first time causes only disgust. Do not forget about saliva, at first its excess causes negative emotions.
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Conclusion
- Goosebumps, accelerated heartbeat, pleasant trembling - the first kiss is to blame. How to kiss for the first time, present yourself, you already know. The main thing is to gather your courage, nerves - into a fist, do not be shy, give free rein to feelings. Love is a wonderful state that knows no barriers, no matter how it is explained from a medical point of view. kiss - The best way express feelings without words. If you want to confess your love, start kissing.
- The fairer sex should not forget that it is not advisable to take the initiative and start kissing for the first time with a young man on your initiative. Nevertheless, kisses are, perhaps, an expression of feelings for you of exactly “that one of your own” person.
- A young man who has a desire to kiss should react to how she perceives his initiative, and if she is unpleasant to her, she needs to stop in time. Lady will definitely appreciate such an act.
Let the process itself, taking place for the first time, bring only positive emotions, kiss on health! And the question of how to kiss a girl for the first time on the lips does not bother you anymore. Everything comes with experience, after a while you both will not be equal.
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That thrilling first kiss
In the life of a girl there are such exciting moments as the first date and the first kiss. If she does not feel comfortable, she begins to have self-doubt and her own abilities. It is because of this that girls begin to wonder how they can understand what to kiss. Undoubtedly, the moment of a kiss on a first date is the most exciting, even if the girl already has experience in relationships with men.
Experts advise that if you feel that you are starting to panic, you should try to relax. After all, if you find yourself too constrained, you have an increased risk of doing something stupid and awkward. After you calm down, watch the guy's behavior. If he constantly fiddles with something in his hands and often looks at your lips, this is undoubtedly the first sign that he really wants to at least touch you. Practice shows that after this sign appears, it will take from several minutes to several hours until the moment of the first kiss. Of course, the initiative can come not only from a male representative.
Another sign that a guy is about to kiss you is a slight pause in the conversation. He tells you something, and then stops, opens his lips a little and looks you straight in the eyes.
Also, if a guy wants to kiss you, he will definitely come a little closer to you. Perhaps he will take your hand and look at your lips, occasionally licking his own.
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Also, the girls have a question about the technique of kissing. Here you can do nothing, but just try to enjoy the moment. Do not worry that the first time you could not understand the partner’s technique and rhythm, subsequent attempts will please you much more. Don't forget that with practice comes experience, which is why if you can't resist temptation anymore, kiss him first.
No need to think that it will seem vulgar and depraved. Think that you have initiated a higher relationship.
Of course, not every place is suitable for such an exciting moment. It is worth remembering that it should be quite quiet there, and you should be relaxed. The ideal situation for the first kiss is exactly the moment when there is an awkward pause and you look into each other's eyes. Just don't try to kiss a guy during a conversation, because he may regard this as an attempt to get rid of his chatter and just take offense at you.
Holding hands, coquettishly embarrassed looks, timid attempts to confess one's feelings - all this is exciting, sweet, but ... quite forgettable. What can not be said about such an event as the first kiss. Scientists have come to the conclusion that it takes root in memory sometimes better than the birth of a child or your own wedding. This enhances its meaning, but also adds nervousness. How and when to do things right? The secrets of a successful debut - further in the sections.
How to prepare for the first kiss?
1. Morally.
It is normal to be nervous before such an important event. However, if the nerves are heating up to severe dizziness, nausea, panic, then it's time to work with it.
2. Physically.
Another significant part. While still at home, just about to go to a meeting, it is important:
- brush your teeth thoroughly, use mouthwash, floss, or toothpicks if available;
- refuse food with a specific smell - fish, garlic, onions. It is also better not to drink coffee if you have stomach problems. Taking a coffee drink in such a case will quickly cause bad smell from mouth;
- take with you chewing gum or sucking sweets with a pleasant aroma - mint, barberry, lemon, for example.
Before the kiss:
- you can lightly bite your lips, making them redder, and then gently lick them to make them look more attractive;
- forget about cigarettes or alcohol - the smell of tobacco, alcohol spoils everything;
- spit out the gum - it actively stimulates the production of saliva, and this will certainly affect the quality of the whole process.
5 golden rules for the first kiss.
All hints, coquetry behind, there is nowhere to retreat, because her / his lips are already opposite. Excitement builds up inside and spreads through the body with a sweet, slightly tingling experience. The partner's breath gently tickles the skin, the heart beats more distinctly, louder. It seems like the whole world hears it.
How not to spoil this moment and continue everything on the same pleasant note?
1. Haste is useless.
Sharpness can result in an unexpected and unpleasant reaction of a couple, an injury or a ruined moment, even if before that it was perfect. It is not necessary to do everything at a snail's pace, but smoothness in such a matter is a must-have. This is especially true for the following steps:
- approaching the mouth to the partner's lips;
- touching the body, hair or face;
- lip movements.
All actions are carried out as gently as possible. It is better to give up Hollywood passion, because at the first kiss, the couple still does not know either partner's or even their own preferences. Excessive pressure, aggression are great repulsed.
The very first time is always a story about lightness, romance.
2. Moderate variety is good.
Why moderate? Again, the kissers are not yet aware of their preferred techniques. It is better to start with the standard model, and leave bold experiments for later.
However, standing in one position, risking a cramp or neck numbness, cyclically imitating the movements of the lips of an aquarium fish is also a bad idea. This is where diversity plays a key role. What can be changed then?:
- head tilts- to the left, to the right (so that the noses do not meet, slightly tilt the head back), changing the angle;
- impact points- “running” all over the face is still impossible, but it is allowed to kiss the corners of the mouth, nose, cheeks;
- objects of contact- lips will be the center of all touches, but why not gently rub your noses, cheeks or even foreheads (without butting).
3. "Hands at the seams" - taboo.
Dangling, twitching from awkwardness brushes look, to put it mildly, unaesthetic. They will have to go somewhere.
- Guys can gently hug the partner around the waist or put their palm on her neck, face.
- girl it is better to touch the chest of the chosen one, his sides, shoulders or face.
- Also for both sexes it's a good idea to run your fingers through your loved one's hair.
Stroking is an important part of a dynamic, fun kiss. It is enough to gently, slowly stroke your partner on the back, arms, face, hair. Many people like it when a couple puts their hand on the neck in such a way that the index finger touches the earlobe, and the thumb strokes the skin of the cheek.
By the way, after such a kiss or even before it, you can stroke it with a small pillow. thumb the lower lip of the couple, lightly grasping his/her chin.
